In the heart of a university, a wise teacher decided to plant a seed in the souls of her students. She gave each of them four deep blue ribbons, similar to the sky on a clear day. On each ribbon, the phrase “YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO ME” was inscribed. She asked them to wear one of these ribbons as a reminder.
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Once everyone wore their ribbon, the teacher, with sincere eyes, shared that this phrase reflected her feelings for each of them. Then, she revealed the core of the exercise: they should share a ribbon with someone special in their lives, explain the reason, and pass on the remaining ribbons for that person to do the same with others.
The aim was to measure the impact of such a simple yet powerful expression of appreciation.
As they left the room, there were murmurs, laughter, and speculation about whom they would give the ribbons to. While many thought of family and loved ones, one student from a distant land faced a deep dilemma.
This student, blessed with a scholarship, was far from his family. The physical distance made it impossible to give the ribbon to his loved ones in person. He pondered over whom to give this meaningful ribbon to. The next day, clarity dawned on him.
He remembered a noble friend, a mentor who had guided him in life choices and who had been his beacon in challenging times.
Of course! He was the perfect recipient.
At the dawn of the following day, the student, ribbon in hand, made his way to where his friend worked. Upon arrival, he eagerly asked to see him.
The friend was deeply surprised by this unexpected visit. He had thought the student would come after work hours, and a nagging thought whispered that something might be wrong.
Upon seeing him at the entrance, the friend felt a wave of relief. However, he was also curious about the reason for this sudden visit.
With his usual calm demeanor, the student explained why he was there and, holding out three ribbons to him, urged him to wear one. He expressed with genuine belief that, away from home, there was no one more fitting than his friend to carry such a symbolic gesture.
The young executive’s face showed a feeling of honor and gratitude. In his world of duties and pressures, such tokens of appreciation were rare. With tangible commitment, he assured the student that he would not only continue the experiment but also share with him any outcomes from it.
After returning to his tasks, a bold and unconventional idea sprouted in the executive’s mind:
What if he gave the remaining ribbons to his boss?
The superior was known for his reserved nature and relentless work ethic. The young man had to muster patience and wait for the right moment. Upon entering the boss’s office, the atmosphere showcased his diligence and dedication; documents, projects, and accolades were scattered everywhere.
The boss, with his deep and authoritative voice, broke the silence: “What do you need?”
With humility and a slight quiver in his voice, the young executive explained the purpose of his visit and displayed the two ribbons. The boss’s astonishment was evident. His eyes, full of disbelief, sought understanding:
“Why do you think I should wear this ribbon?”
The executive, with honesty and respect, expressed his admiration for the boss, emphasizing his skill and passion for business. He admitted that he had grown professionally thanks to him and felt fortunate to serve under his leadership.
For a brief moment, the boss appeared vulnerable, moved by those words that he rarely heard in his position. With a nod, he accepted the ribbons, and in a gesture of silent gratitude, made it clear he valued the acknowledgment.
The young executive, with a full heart, bid farewell and headed home, carrying with him the warmth of a kind act.
There was a leader used to staying in his work sanctuary, the bustling corner of an office until the city’s shadows lengthened. However, on this occasion, the afternoon saw him heading home earlier than usual.
On his lapel, he wore a ribbon, while the other carefully rested in his jacket pocket. The soft hum of his car’s engine blended with echoes of his thoughts as he drove towards the warmth of his home.
Upon entering, surprise shone in his wife’s eyes seeing him at that hour. Sensing something out of the ordinary, she asked with concern if everything was okay. With a smile, he reassured her, stating everything was fine, but that day he had decided he wanted to share the sunset with his cherished family.
With a gesture, he requested the company of his son, who, equally surprised, obliged. Despite the questioning glances, father and son stepped into the cool evening air. They both sat on the porch, a witness to laughter and contemplation, where the gentle breeze caressed them.
The leader, with the wisdom granted by years and challenges, acknowledged to his son that often his presence had been more shadowy than substantial. He admitted the missed occasions, the fleeting yet precious moments.
With humility, he expressed his desire to reconnect, to rediscover the family bonds that the daily hustle had faded. He spoke about the ribbons and the meaning they held. And in an act filled with symbolism and emotion, he offered his son the last ribbon, the one he had kept closely guarded because his son was the truest and strongest beat of his heart.
The young man, tears streaming from his eyes, revealed the storm brewing inside him, confessing he had considered ending his life feeling invisible. But at that moment, amidst genuine words and heartfelt hugs, he found the light and love he had yearned for.
Thus, the simple act of a teacher, rooted in the power of expressing feelings, managed to transform and heal hearts, showing that sometimes the deepest and most genuine truths lie in simplicity.
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