Alcoholism is characterized as a pattern of excessive alcohol consumption leading to recurrent intoxication. It may present acutely, as in episodes of sporadic intoxication, or chronically, marked by persistent alcohol use in response to an underlying pathological state.
Biodecoding Perspective on Alcoholism
Underlying Emotional Conflicts
Through the technical lens of biodecoding, a central conflict related to maternal protection is identified. It represents an escape from a reality perceived as unbearable on both a biological and emotional level.
Often, individuals’ first encounters with alcohol occur in contexts of celebration and joy. This memory is imprinted in our psyche, creating a link between alcohol consumption and the experience of happiness, a sensation that daily life does not seem to offer spontaneously.
Additionally, alcohol temporarily frees the individual from their inhibitions, as it reduces activity in the frontal region of the brain, leading to diminished memory, concentration, and self-control.
Emotional Conflict Behind Alcohol Consumption
The root of problematic alcohol consumption often lies in conflicts related to the maternal figure and the need for protection (addictions are closely linked to the relationship with the mother).
There arises a fear of vulnerability and the pain of past wounds. This can be interpreted as a search for spiritual or divine connection, a longing to touch transcendental elements like water or fire.
The issue is further complicated by paternal separation conflicts, that is, the struggle to capture maternal attention by overcoming the paternal barrier.
The desire to escape reality and forget personal problems represents another significant emotional conflict. Moreover, alcohol can serve as a means to express hidden truths, operating under the popular belief that “drunks always speak the truth,” thereby attempting to unite or heal the family.
Consequences of Alcoholism
Alcohol abuse triggers a range of physical and cognitive disorders; the body undergoes agitation and transformation, cognitive capabilities are diminished, and both the nervous and muscular systems are subjected to excessive strain.
Alcoholism, like other forms of dependency, often emerges in an attempt to fill a deep emotional or psychological void, thereby poisoning the individual’s existence in a certain manner.
Motivations Behind Alcohol Abuse
The reasons behind alcohol abuse are varied and include escaping adverse personal realities, battling phobias, authority (especially paternal), and internal conflict over presenting one’s true self in public.
Moreover, alcohol consumption is often sought to gain confidence in social situations, facilitate communication, and confront challenges, as a slight intoxication can reduce inhibitions, allowing for greater honesty and self-expression.
The Desire for Dominance and the Illusion of Strength
Consuming alcohol provides an illusion of strength and power, giving me a sense of control in personal relationships by inevitably annoying others due to my state. In this state, I lose the ability to recognize situations that could be harmful to me.
I frequently feel undervalued, unworthy, incompetent, inferior, and incapable of standing up for myself or others, engulfed in feelings of loneliness, isolation, guilt, and distress, along with a perception of abandonment, whether familial or otherwise. It is then that I seek refuge in “a little tonic.”
Immersing into Oblivion
I often seek to “drown my sorrows” or any other difficult emotion to escape from conflictive or uncomfortable circumstances. It is important to note that certain stress situations can have a direct link to alcoholism.
I identify a recurring pattern: tension – alcohol consumption – a sense of well-being after drinking, which initially appears to relieve the tension. This suggests my brain has been conditioned to associate the act of drinking alcohol with an escape route from stress.
Thus, an automatic cycle develops when faced with stress, my first reaction is to seek relief from alcohol.
Challenges faced during childhood, especially in a family environment marked by the alcoholism of a member, often a parent, are highlighted as one of the potential origins of this dependency.
Neurotic Disorders and Personality Alterations
Neurotic disorders and subsequent personality alterations emerge as significant factors in the development of my alcoholism. Even the lack of essential nutrients can drive me to seek a nutritional supplement in alcohol.
Often, this environment is exacerbated by conflicts and, sometimes, by violence of all kinds, including physical and psychological abuse. Attempts to distance myself from my family often prove unsuccessful.
Consequently, my moral compass is compromised: constant exposure to family conflicts diminishes my regard for the values imparted by my parents, preventing the integration of solid moral principles.
In certain families, alcoholism is perpetuated through upbringing, with parents who trivialize alcohol consumption among children or who normalize its regular and abundant intake.
Hypoglycemia may be another underlying condition contributing to my alcoholism, given that alcohol quickly turns into sugar in the blood.
This explains why, upon giving up alcohol, I might begin to consume excessive amounts of coffee, seeking caffeine as a stimulant, as well as sugar, pastries, or sweets in large quantities.
Occasionally, smoking becomes another of my addictions, providing me with the necessary stimulus to feel active. It is crucial to identify the root of my discomfort associated with hypoglycemia, a dilemma for which I have not yet found a solution.
The Connection Between Allergies and Alcoholism
It turns out that my exclusive preference for drinks like cognac, gin, whiskey, rye, or Scotch could indicate an underlying allergic reaction to one or several components present in these beverages, such as wheat, barley, and rye, among others.
This leads me to ponder: to what or to whom am I truly allergic?
The origin of alcoholism may be linked to unresolved or unaccepted experiences from childhood. If I had inappropriate sexual experiences in my childhood with someone alcoholic, or if I carry guilt related to these encounters, the memory of these experiences may awaken in me the desire to drink.
Similarly, if I failed to accept the anger of my alcoholic father, I might have internalized that anger, eventually becoming an alcoholic myself. In this context, alcohol becomes a means to evade concerns related to the past, present, and future.
Fleeing to an Illusory World
To distance myself from an often complex reality and immerse myself in an unattainable dream, I continually construct a fantastical and illusory refuge.
This escapism allows me, albeit temporarily, to forget my feelings of self-rejection, loneliness, ignorance, helplessness, and the sensation of being different from others.
I manage to evade my responsibilities and, for a moment, feel “liberated”. Given my dissatisfaction with my life, it only deteriorates further as my dependency on alcohol (or other substances) increases.
In moments of sobriety, reality feels even more unbearable, pushing me towards depression. My longing is to detach from reality and dive into a world of fantasy.
Especially when the dependency becomes evident, I yearn for the type of emotional connection I always wished to receive from my mother or father and feel I never had. I seek to experience unconditional love.
Although the past was challenging and my bottle became my “best friend,” it’s time to value my physical and spiritual attributes.
I have decided to adopt a more structured life approach, appreciating who I am and my virtues. I am now on a path towards a healthier direction. By moving away from a state of constant flight and despair, I will be able to cultivate greater self-respect and address my problems (and experiences) more effectively.
